Michael Laws

I have a massage therapy qualification and during my training I had to learn to ‘read’ a person by looking at their body map.  Quite honestly you don’t need to have a massage qualification to read the body map of Michael Laws.  His eternal grimace and bottomless black eyes say it all.   Clothed in a scarey armour of hatred for the world .. a smile from him  should strike fear into the hearts of many as it probably comes at the cost of making someone else feel small, inferior and unworthy.

And yet, we all experience wearing different hats for different situations in our lives.  Whilst I will be known for my sharp tongue and its lashing at world events that affect me,  I am also a very spiritual person who preaches about always looking for the good in this world and following the path of good self – development under our revered priestess Oprah Winfrey .. God I love her!!  Michael Laws has a heart for his children as we have all read about in the Womens Magazines.   So before I judge ..let’s have a look at some of the facts I know about the Michael Laws debacle thus far. 1/ He wants the spelling of Whanganui to remain as Wanganui. 2/ He believes he has a historical right to keep the ‘h’ out of the name because he researched it through a body of people who had nothing to do with naming it. 3/ He wrote a really nasty reply to school children who had the courage to show their displeasure at his attitude towards things Maori, particularly that he would not acknowledge the Maori origin of the place name for Whanganui.   Hmmm .. not looking good Michael. 

But you know what .. Michael Laws is passionate about his dislikes.  He doesn’t mince words and is as un PC as they come.  Man after my tonguetiger heart.  Dammit, he commits to his view with so much passion and anger it’s hard to separate the two.  But he lost me when he got all weak by putting out his cold hand to have the children from Otaki School come and visit with him in atonement.  This back fired miserably and now he’s skulking because the same kids received an award for hitting goliath in the head.

In my personal mission to have an opinion about all the injustices of this world I have learnt a lot from Michael Laws about what can be effective and what can’t.   Having a tantrum and throwing myself angrily about the room will only bring attention to my behaviour and not the issue I wish to resolve or throw light on.  And then, as universal karma would have it, I happened to see this quote on a friends website that said

“…. The shortest path to ignorance is contempt before examination.” 

Light bulb moment.    Whilst I luuuuurve attention .. I really do want the issues I talk about on this site to have the limelight.  So thank you Michael, you have turned into my most unlikely mentor.  And I just love you for that.

tongue tiger

Watch what you say and where you say it

Hi there

I had the misfortune of putting my ‘real name’, first and last, on a television commentary website and now my name is forever embedded  with some pretty ‘heavy’ commentary made about a certain politician and a current political situation being experienced in our country.  It’s okay.  I am happy to stick to my convictions in the face of adversity however, I need to be more careful in future .. hence .. the advent of ‘tongue tiger’.    This is my avenue to express my heartfelt feelings about issues in my world with the passion that democracy should allow me to have without persecution.  However, we all now know the dangers of expressing our true feelings on the net and having your real name attached to it for all in sundry to see .. especially when employers use the net vigorously to scavenge information about you and probably using what they find out of context to make judgements about what sort of a person you are.  I happen to think  that there is a raw honesty to be found in the heat of passion.  Brutal words, expletives even, provide the environment of true conviction for the point you wish to make.  But at some stage we do regret when our ‘tongue tiger’ gets out of control and our passionate words can slay a persons ego beyond the point we wished to make in the first place.  I have done that.  Not because I am a callous insensitive cow but because my feelings and beliefs had been hurt so much, I reached around to fashion a quick word fireball and then threw it as hard as I could without really thinking.   I know this about myself and this is why I have chosen to communicate with my baby’s Dad via emails making us responsible and accountable for all we say.  For the most part we stick to the issues at hand and spare our daughter the vitriol of a relationship gone wrong. 

So .. I will share this site with my friends and if others wonder onto this path then .. welcome.  Have an opinion and say what you like .. use your name or not.. just know that the tongue tiger is always crouching, ready to pounce.